In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a straight-forward (with tact & diplomacy) NOT PERFECT, black honest woman. Even though I do tell a little white lie, like "I'll be there in 5 minutes", while knowing I'll be there in 20 minutes, lol.
I'm a MOM to one beautiful daughter who I love dearly and am a Receptionist.
I hate to be lied to, please tell me like it really is.
A non conformist, don't compare me to others, take me as I am. Voetstoot! lol.
I love to be Pampered & Spoiled (lol,which woman don't like that) and a man who don't mind providing & taking care of his lady love.
I would like a man with a fresh clean cologne-smelling body & Fresh Breath (am kinda OCD about that) please NO SMOKERS and that is NON-NEGOTIABLE!
I thrive on love & the old school kind of romance. Am affectionate & strong but very sensitive.
I like to laugh, hence I like going to comedy shows. Also, likes going to the movies, the farmers market, a music concert sometimes and going on holidays & long drives but also love to stay indoors for quiet evenings.
I like listening to music, reading, dancing, swimming, walking/jogging (hoping to meet someone who will do that with me) & chilling with my partner, family or friends over good food, cocktails and great conversation. Be it at a restaurant, braai picnic or a cocktail lounge.
I'm a Libra, I like things to be fair & balanced. Meaning I'm easy-going, fun and out going yet I can be a recluse at times, serious or a bit strict. Responsible!
Although I can tidy up here & there (love a beautiful, tidy home) and I can grill a chicken, steak or fish, Steam some veggies and Whip up a quick green salad, bear in mind that COOKING and CLEANING is NOT MY PASSION. Instead I like gardening!
Hey, I said I'm honest, I said it like it really is. No beating about the bush, I called a spade a spade
About Her Ideal Match
The kind the of man I would love to have in MY LIFE is someone who has no shame in searching for love. Don't hide, show your profiles with photos please. I'm NOT Perfect, therefore am not expecting someone Perfect.
I would love an Honorable, Happy man who has integrity. Who's honest, responsible, trustworthy, loyal, faithful, respectful, humble & down-to-earth no matter his wealth, education or social standing. A romantic gentleman who's loving and isn't too macho to show his emotions. Not abusive & possessive, but understanding, Open-minded & Tolerant.
A man who can COMMUNICATE WELL, who has a sense of humor. Love & Laughter is everything! A man who's young at heart and still likes to do fun stuff now & then (Not bar or club hopping). Someone who wont mind going jogging with me if time permits.
A generous man who is giving, who like to pamper & spoil and don't mind providing & taking care of his family. A man who's hygienic, smells good & has fresh breath, NO SMOKERS and that's NON-NEGOTIABLE!
I need a partner who craves companionship as much as I do. A family orientated man who treasures spending time doing stuff & going places together. A man who can have serious talks about family & worldly issues or just silly random stuff. Importantly, a God-fearing man who would LOVE me Unconditionally and ACCEPTS ME FLAWS & ALL (sometimes hyper & talkative and sometimes calm & quiet - not moody). All this vice-versa, as long as we work on understanding each other & being HAPPY.
Now gentleman, please read my profile THOROUGHLY and if you find my looks, personality, location, education, job & hobbies appealing to you, DO CONTACT ME.
But, if I'm NOT YOUR TYPE and If you're gonna have SELECTIVE READING, it means u don't like certain things about me, I'm clearly NOT FOR YOU. Please DO NOT CONTACT ME. My narrative is Clear as to not confuse or deceive you. I think we're both here not to play games, so please don't waste my time & yours. Thank you kindly
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (South of Jhb), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Struggling |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
39 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Curly; Wild; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Swimming; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I can't or won't cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz South Africa: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
